Texoma Wedding Ministers/DFW Ministers - Frequently Asked Questions

Welcome To The Frequently Asked Questions Page

We have answered several of our most common questions here.
If your question has not been answered, please don't hesitate to contact us directly.

Q: Do I have to have the ceremony in a church?

A: The only requirement for a ceremony is the
couple and a valid license. Your ceremony can be
held at your home... in a park.. where ever your
heart desires (within legal boundaries, of course).
In your back yard, your church, your living room,
you decide!

Q: Due to the various religions (and atheists!) in our families, we want a celebration, not a heavy, spiritual ceremony - can you accommodate us?

A: Yes, I am available for spiritual or celebratory or
even non-spiritual ceremonies - call me and we'll
discuss the various parts of the ceremony and how I
can help you create your specific ceremony.

Q: Do you have restrictions against certain parts of a ceremony (i.e., children in the ceremony, music, non-traditional vows, etc.) ?

A: There are no restrictions I can think of - ask if you
are not sure! I love children in ceremonies! Definitely
use lively music that speaks to your hearts! Non-
traditional vows? I've heard almost everything that
can be spoken or written -- to give you peace of
mind, ask me when we talk about your particular
needs.

Q: Is it necessary to use  a standard set of vows - that have been used thousands of times before ?

A: No, it is not necessary. Each ceremony can be
personalized to suit each couple's needs and wants. I
will work with you to create the ceremony and vows
that will make your day special.

Q: My fiance is very shy, Does he/she have to memorize vows and speak aloud?

A: Absolutely not, except for saying "I do" or "I will".
The ceremony should be full of joy and memories!...
not the stress of remembering lines that will not
necessarily come from their heart. An experienced
officiant can personalize the vows and include any
specifics wished for - a special story, a specific part of
the ceremony, whatever the couple wishes.

Q: Can quick elopements be accommodated?

A: Yes - In Texas, the 72-hour waiting period after
obtaining the license must be followed (unless in the
case of a military person being shipped out, where a
judge can usually be prevailed upon to allow less than
72-hours). The Texas license is good for 30 days.
In Oklahoma, there is no waiting period - drive to the
courthouse, get your license, get married! Oklahoma
licenses are good 10 days from the date of issue.
Durant, Oklahoma (Hwy 75) is easy to get to and has
very friendly office staff. Call me and we can plan to
meet in front of the courthouse in the gazebo!
Please call me to schedule your day and time -
903-647-1284 or email: This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it

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